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Berlin Schools Music Legend Dies at 71

Paul Karam led BHS Marching Band.

I remember when my older brother Bill was in the Berlin high School Marching Band like it was yesterday.

One of the coolest things he got to do was march over the Route 9 Bridge from Berlin to Willow Brook Park with the band when the football team played Pulaski High School.

I remember how they closed the road off so the band could march there and thought it was so amazing.

Leading that band over the bridge in full uniform was Paul J. Karam. He was proud of his band and the music that it played. It was all about the music with him. He wasn't a fan of formations or fancy tricks, he wanted his bands to stand and play their butts off...and that's what they did. They were a huge band and they formed a wall of sound and it was amazing.

Paul Karam lost hs battle with leukemia and passed away at the age of 71.

His obituary, courtesy of legacy.com, appears below. Please share your memories of Paul Karam in the comments section.

Paul John Karam, 71, of Essex, formerly of Kensington, peacefully passed away, Monday, (October 3, 2011) surrounded by his loving family following a courageous battle with leukemia. Born in New Britain, CT he was the son of the late John and Nanajan (Kanish) Karam. He graduated from New Britain High School and went on to obtain his Bachelor of Music degree at Boston University, later earning advanced degrees at CCSC and UCONN. A dedicated music educator for more than 35 years, he began his career in Poughkeepsie, NY but soon relocated back to CT where he worked in the Berlin Public Schools, the majority of his career as the Director of Music for the district. He touched the lives of countless students many of whom went on to pursue careers as musicians and music educators. His love of music was second only to his love and dedication to his family. Along with his high school sweetheart and wife of 49 years, Mary (Flood) of Essex, he is survived by his four children, Cori Humes and her husband Brian of Kensington, Christopher Karam and his wife Alison of Killingworth, Heather Price and her husband Kevin of East Haddam, and Patricia Wyskiewicz and her husband James of New Britain. His pride and radiant joy were his eight grandchildren: Kelly and Steven Humes; Paul Karam; Sarah and Christopher Price; Tristan, Landon, and Aiden Wyskiewicz. He also leaves his brother, Albert and wife Gleora of Westbrook, many nieces and nephews, and was predeceased by his sister, Rose Karam.
Funeral Services are Saturday, October 8th, 11 a.m. at Deep River Congregational Church, 1 Church Street, Deep River, CT 06417. Family and friends may call on Friday 4-7 pm at the Robinson, Wright, and Weymer Funeral Home, 34 Main Street in Centerbrook. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Paul J. and Mary P. Karam Music Scholarship Fund at the Community Foundation of Greater New Britain, 74 Vine Street, New Britain, CT 06052; the Deep River Congregational Church PO Box 246, Deep River, CT 06417; or the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, 1311 Mamaroneck Ave., Suite 310, White Plains, NY 10605.1311 To share a memory or leave a condolence for the family please visit www.rwwfh.com

Patricia Karam Wyskiewicz October 6, 2011 at 10:37 am
Thank you for this beautiful memory of my dad - Patricia Karam Wyskiewicz
Michele Fischer-Paul October 6, 2011 at 11:10 am
My thoughts are with the Karam family.
Jessica D'Ambrosio Silva October 6, 2011 at 12:55 pm
I enjoyed the pleasure of having Mr. Karam in band in high school. He was always so passionate about music and he taught us all to be just as passionate. He was a true legend in the music world! My thoughts are prayers are with the Karam family during this difficult time.
Jessica D'Ambrosio Silva
Michele Cosgrove Harris October 7, 2011 at 08:43 pm
My high school years were defined by the experiences and relationships that came about because of Mr. Karam's oversight of the band program. I have many fond and irreplaceable memories.
Athina Loveland October 7, 2011 at 09:52 pm
Mr. Karam was involved with my music education from Hubbard through Berlin High. In the years since, I would run into him at his church in Deep River, the same church my husbands grandparents attended. He would remember me and we would catch up a bit. He will be missed. My thoughts go out to his family during this sad time.
Athina Panagopoulos Loveland
Glenn Glatz October 12, 2011 at 12:43 am
Very nice. Memroies are great.
Tammy Tomasi Moskites November 22, 2011 at 01:48 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with the Karam family.
Terry Stackpole July 7, 2012 at 07:55 pm
I learned only today, in the Boston University alumni magazine, of the passing of my Boston University roommate (1959-60 as I recall). I later encountered Paul on several occasions at various music education conferences, when we renewed our friendship and caught up. He clearly affected many individuals in a most positive way - that is what a life is for. My prayers for the peaceful repose of his soul and for the consolation of his family.
Peace and blessings, Terry Stackpole Easton, MD Catholic Deacon and Hospital Chaplain

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greta stifel June 13, 2013 at 09:38 am
very sad indeed; so who is to blame for not teaching them? it is no wonder that the sat scores inRead More the DRG for Berlin and other townships are what they are....mediocre; at this comes right from the State of CT educational tracking stats a very telling article in Connecticut Magazine as well! the magnet schools are kicking the proverbial scholastic butts of the public school system. for less pay as well....so, the relationship of salary increases to all around better education;...well, all i can say is.....
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Next meeting to voice your opinion is at 7pm Community Center 6/13 Thursday. Friends of Pistol CreekRead More and the
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William Brighenti June 12, 2013 at 04:49 pm
How about signing my petition? I'd be happy to return the favor.
John Elsworth June 10, 2013 at 01:50 pm
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John Elsworth June 10, 2013 at 01:57 pm
Bill, pushed wrong button an send comment off before I was finished. My point is everyone has toRead More use common sense in all situations an that includes parents on teaching there children as well as motorists. There will always be motorists who disobey the law an that is why parents must teach there kids about how to be safe an sound an not just say well there are laws on that. Make kids aware that accidents can happen an motorists speed an just be careful.
William Brighenti June 10, 2013 at 02:50 pm
Of course. But drivers need to obey the laws. If they don't, enforce the laws and make them payRead More the consequences of their actions: fines and civil lawsuits and higher insurance rates; loss of license;, prison for hitting a child.
chris choinski June 8, 2013 at 10:59 pm
heres a fun fact for ya, listening to you makes people want the old Berlin back. free ofRead More progressives like you
William Brighenti June 9, 2013 at 11:44 am
Name calling? Progressives? What next? Pinko Commie? I thought obeying the law, driving slow,Read More loving family and children were conservative values?
chris choinski June 9, 2013 at 06:38 pm
ok, first i would like to apologize for going a little nuts, i was a little worked up last night.Read More again, i apologize. but i dont believe i called you any names, i did however refer to the word assume, which you did when you said people like me speed. one speeding ticket in 13 years of driving (when i was younger). and you are correct, loving family and children are values i have, thats why i try to take the responsibility of protecting them, and not leaving their protection up to someone else (speeders in this case). but i guess that liberals/sheep, wouldnt know about that, wanting and thinking that the govt or someone else will be there to protect them. like i said in the other comment section, dont rely on others for your or others safety, rely on yourself.
William Brighenti May 31, 2013 at 08:03 pm
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Debra Tubbs May 31, 2013 at 09:24 pm
I live on Patterson Way and it is like there is no speed limit on this road.
William Brighenti June 1, 2013 at 09:06 am
What is the purpose of posted speed limit signs in residential neighborhoods if speeders are allowedRead More to drive recklessly, threatening the lives of children, pets, bicyclists, and others?